The Government often talks about women empowerment and various initiatives have also been taken in this regard but, women never get the freedom to live their dreams just because: Is she will be able to travel alone? Is she will be able to get settle in a new place?Is she will be able to survive in crowds or busy places? How her career is important than parents?Educate her but dependency will be still there. Isn’t it? Struggle is not meant for girls, they are weak. Isn’t it? She will be slave for life, even after a huge success. Isn’t it? Who will take care of home, husband and children? Etc.How so? Why so? Can putting these questions stop growth of a woman or isn’t pre-assuming everything like a throttle? Then think about it and try to modify your thoughts. It’s like an urge at this moment to understand this thing that ‘Putting question mark on anyone never brings revolution, it only diminishes quality of our future generation’.Dear women, I know we have come so far after many sacrifices, battles and revolt, but you see in out of 10, two or four houses still have concept ‘Ladki Paida Hui Hai’; when a girl is born, they treat us with a tag ‘Girl or Woman’ for lifetime thinking that we can’t do anything, a dependent dummy and decide to take our full charge without knowing what we really have inside us. Just because people are walking on old path, so is the image of woman in eyes of everyone. Frankly speaking ‘Women need to step-out of their culture to know their worth’, then only people will know Who really a women is. May be you will see a lot of people who will be against you in this journey but if you want to make your life worth living for then you have to forget about all the odds and run towards what you actually want.A woman need to understand that ‘Seeking validation from someone only damages your self-confidence’.You are 32 and not married?; remember life continues even if you don’t want to get marry.You don’t deserve this job. Remember your resume is rejected not your life or your abilities.You are choosing passion, are you kidding me?; remember you are meant to follow that, you have capabilities, don’t try to figure it out in someone else opinion.You changed your partner? Remember you have choice to choose your partner, if your instinct says no, don’t go on that road. Stop thinking about what people will think about you.Why you have this tattoo, have girls started this custom too? Remember its your own skin, do whatever you want to do.Why these short hair, why these kind of clothes, why this attitude, why this and why that? Remember; these things do not define you.It will be in continuation and it has to be decided by you whether to live in stress thinking about it or taking a chill-pill and move on because after all it is your life and you must create it according to you.You should have acceptance for your body. If you yourself cannot love it, nobody is going to love your body and that doesn’t even matter because if you are happy in a fatty belly, acne, brown skin, skinny legs, then body shaming is not a new phenomenon for a women, Right? You should keep one thing in mind that you should not fight with it.Fighting with the body, makes it burden. And carrying your body as a burden, you can never arrive to your true self. Stop worrying about silent talks about you, don’t get afraid by reading those few comments on your social media, do not forget to love yourself in all these circumstances. Growth is only possible when you accept yourself as you are and don’t try to modify yourself or mould yourself; just because of others who will never be satisfied with you.What is she for her? The she for her itself is powerful because the women who support other women are more successful. There will be a huge transition because if women alone is powerful; then think collectively we definitely have an impact. I know traditionally we have been taught to be in a competition with each other, but it is so clear that the strategy doesn’t work. The truth is raising each other up and channelling the power of collaboration is truly how we will change the equation- and have a lot more of success along the way.Reframe what networking is, put yourself in an environment that gives you the opportunity to share your experiences, accepting your flaws and work on the facts. It will be a game changer. Secure enough in yourself to praise others. Transformation makes shifts, brings breakthrough, convert you into a new being, a new birth may be. Be that transformation, be that change so that in every house we get supporters not opposers, Raise your voice when needed, you can absolutely live life of your dreams. ‘Only one who see dreams have ability to convert them into reality’. Don’t lose yourself on someone’s pre-assumptions, logics, opinions. Don’t be hard with yourself, you can live an independent life. Promise yourself to be independent in terms of love, finances, career, failures, partner, children, present and future. Do not try to imitate man; rejoice in your feminine qualities, make a poetry and story out of them. The perfect state of being is being ‘YOU’.
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